Proactivity makes a difference in how you approach situations, decision-making and introspection. A proactive thinker is likely to examine himself and his life introspectively and look at it objectively without shirking responsibility. Whereas a reactive person might look introspectively and see all the external factors as to why they did this or that. Proactivity is a state of mind that focuses on the choices made in life that lead you to where you are. Reactivity may cause the person to make excuses or point fingers when confronted with their situation in life. The way we behave and our language can tell us what type of person we are. Reactive language is often negative and stubborn. I read articles about it and what kept coming to mind was the phrase: “That’s how it is.” This sentence really tells me that the person saying it hasn't really taken control or responsibility for the situation. The first habit quote I liked was: “If you adopt a lifestyle pattern that focuses on the golden eggs and neglects the goose that lays the golden eggs, you will soon find yourself without the asset that produces the golden eggs. It's really about summarizing how the proactive person approaches things to maintain a system and looking for the causes so that they can be directly influenced. Unlike a reactive person who may view a situation in a negative, one-sided or short-term way. Proactivity in leadership would look like someone who is very active in problem solving and invested in the outcome of an idea or project. I think in life I tend to think proactively, but sometimes I don't follow through. But to be proactive, you have to be attentive. I feel that if I strive to be responsible to myself, I will master... middle of paper... and mental state. It is proven that you will make the best decisions when you are in this state of mind. Your physical, mental and spiritual self contributes to your success. Implementing his mantras about responsibility and proactivity will help you maintain your personal and professional health. Most of all, I love the overall messages in The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. I found his anecdotes a bit gooey and preachy, but they helped give a personal touch to the book's messages. I'm glad this was the book I chose while reading. I felt an inner motivation that made me want to get up and do things at school, with my daughter, and at home. Keeping in mind that as I work towards a more professional career, I might consider returning to the following chapters when I can have a more practical knowledge of the following chapters on "First things first" and "Synergy.”.