The ideal husband does not and cannot exist. The idea that a man should have a decent public and private life to satisfy his wife is not realistic. Especially when his wife doesn't do the same for him. Sir Robert Chiltern and Lady Gertrude Chiltern could not make such a relationship work. The pressure of being "the perfect husband" was too much for Sir Robert. He had stated that it ruined his life.7 The meaning of the title changed from the Victorian view of the husband to the new modern idea of ​​the husband. The ideal husband does not come in just one form. It must be unique in many ways. She's a person like his wife. His duty as a husband is to love his wife deeply and respect her. His wife must do the same. The concept turned into a happy ending for the