People want someone who is outgoing and easy to talk to because they are more approachable. When a person is involved in a work environment, they show a more professional and serious side. When someone is at home, they see a more relaxed and comfortable side. A person will never be the same again in everyone's eyes. An individual can do this voluntarily; that's when secrets come in. People will never know what it's like to be in someone else's shoes, because they only know what it's like to be in someone else's place. Sometimes people may do things that they consider acceptable because they think it is acceptable, but may not be acceptable to others. People may never understand what it means to be in other people's shoes because they have never experienced certain situations. Maybe they've never been put in this situation because they don't want to feel a certain way. They shouldn't be involved because they know how they are going to act and they don't want to end up in this situation because it could have happened.