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  • Essay / The Importance of Parenting - 819

    Parenting is an issue that attracts the attention of researchers due to its complex and controversial nature. Questions and issues related to parenting engage professionals from various fields, including psychology, education, sociology, psychotherapy and many other specific fields. At the same time, this question touches on various spheres of child-parent relations: educational practices and attitudes of parents, characteristics of the child's personality resulting from family influences, in particular parents, the nature of the marital relationship , etc. Attitudes, whether parents are strict or very nice, play a fairly important role in parenting because they represent an area of ​​reflection, based on many different opinions and approaches aimed at finding the most balanced way of raising a child. .To begin with, every parent has their own approach to parenting. As far as I'm concerned, it's not the strict or caring attitude that matters. Good parents are not afraid to have their own opinion when they need to give good results with moderate severity and moderate gentleness. On the other hand, strictness emanating from rudeness, or meekness emanating from timidity or lack of principle, can lead to poor results (Spock, 1988). The result of education does not depend on the degree of strictness or gentleness, but rather on the feelings of the child and the principles of life that the parents instill in him. Strict education is not bad, it makes children independent and disciplined, but if such education falls into the authoritarian category, the independence discourse cannot justify it. The authoritarian parenting method generates complexes and nervousness in children. Very strict parents and authorities, wearing a... middle of paper ... are, by nature, good people, and so the children grow up happy and sociable. But austerity is harmful if parents are rude to children and are constantly unhappy if they do not assert their demands based on the age and individual characteristics of the child. Under such circumstances, the child will grow up to be a colorless, pusillanimous or cruel man. In conclusion, it should be stated that strict parenting is not a very bad thing, if the family still has an atmosphere of love and the strictness comes from the particular situations where it is necessary. Parents who prefer the ease of dealing with a child who does not attach much importance to his manners and do not insist on absolute obedience and precision, are also sociable and attentive to the people around them, if they are not afraid to stand firm on these issues. which they consider particularly important.