Relationships can work with the right ingredients! This article will define the elements of an effective relationship and the tensions that weigh on these relationships on a daily basis. Recognizing these elements could improve the quality and success of the relationship. Historically, relationships date back to the dawn of time. Relationships are governed by commandments and traditions. Keep in mind that backgrounds have a huge influence on the actions of people in a relationship. Relationship is defined as a correlation by blood or marriage. The evolution of relationships continues to evolve over time. For example, the relationship between man and man or woman and woman was not accepted. In today's society, a homosexual relationship is acceptable. Come to think of it, a relationship between a man and a woman was considered normal. The man played the dominant role in the relationship. During this time, the wife's role was to be submissive to her husband. Totally different in today's world! Over the years, the roles have radically reversed between men and women. For example, women have taken on more responsibilities in the labor market and in family life. Men have given up some or most of their control. Switching roles in a relationship without expressing your feelings can cause havoc. Unfortunately, some partners don't want to let go of the idea of ​​not having control. In fact, most people will do almost anything to obtain the title of control. Without delay, relationships can only survive by using the elements of an effective relationship and highlighting the issues that strain them daily. There are many ways to improve relationships. Often, relationships are strained because of people's attitudes. To have a successful relationship, people must be open to change. Fifth...... middle of paper ......rties involved. Finally, the honeymoon should be used to reflect on what held the relationship together. The elements of an effective relationship and daily management of tensions to stay out of divorce court. Works cited Creste. (2012). The summary of the secret teaching. Retrieved March 17, 2014 from The Secret: http://thesecret.tv/teachings-summary.html Formica, M. (2010). Ten elements of effective relationships. Retrieved March 17, 2014 from Clarity Digital Group LLC d/b/a Examiner.com: http://www.examiner.com/article/ten-elements-of-effective-relationshipsLauer, R. and Lauer, J. ( 2012). Marriage and family. McGraw Hill. Sweat, B. (2014). How to deal with marriage stress during turbulent times? Retrieved March 17, 2014 from The Good News: http://www.ucg.org/relationships/how-can-you-manage-marriage-stress-troubling-times/