Lack of Respect Along the way, you may lose the respect of your spouse. They seemed great at first, but after seeing all their flaws, annoying habits, mistakes and ongoing problems, you can easily lose respect for them and hold them in such low esteem that you don't even see yourself. at the same level as them. You may start to despise them if you have so little respect for them and, of course, this is one of the causes of marital problems that will likely lead to divorce if you are not careful. Why would you want to stay with someone you don't like? Respect often comes from our values ​​and our opinions. If we feel that someone is less than they should be, we lose respect for them. If we feel like someone is hurting themselves and can't find the strength to do better, we lose respect for them. If we don't think someone is living the "right" way, we lose respect for them. But all of these things are based on our values ​​and opinions, not on