Beyond conversations with friends that didn't make much sense at the time, the first thing I remember clearly was the sexual maturation program that my school primary school offered sixth grade. I remember going to the school library with all the other sixth graders. The instructor for this session was a nurse. It had four diagrams (2 for men and 2 for women) as well as a short video showing the naked body, focusing on the sexual genitalia and reproductive organs. I realize the goal was to anticipate the fears and questions that arise during puberty, as opposed to "sex talk." My parents approached me together, took me to their room and asked me what I knew (or what I understood). heard) about sex. I remember feeling a little uncomfortable at first and wanting to rush in and say, “I’m okay, I know enough.” » However, my parents didn't give up so easily and didn't let me out of that conversation until they addressed what they wanted to make sure I wasn't misinformed. They told me that it was very likely that I would receive misleading or even bad information if my source was word of mouth or perhaps movies. They were right. They covered the basics regarding the mechanics (thankfully no details were discussed) and results. They talked to me about the normality of sexual desires and how lust and love are two very different things. I remember them emphasizing that sex was a very intimate and loving act, which belongs to both husband and wife and that it is a very important aspect of a good marriage. They warned of the dangers of confused feelings and confusing sex with love, and that it is a powerful emotional act that should be considered special, even sacred. I remember leaving the "t......" in middle of paper...... This can and should be done appropriately and in good taste (talking to one's children). So much about sex can be perverted and abused and this is an even more compelling reason to enlighten the child about the benefits and advantages of it, where and when it occurs, as well as the danger and the risks. Sex can and should be a beautiful thing full of love, intimacy, excitement and exploration of both. I couldn't have asked for better parents and I think my parents did a great job introducing me to sexuality. They have given me a great platform on which to build, refine and adjust where necessary and keep up with current events, thus giving a better understanding to my children. What better way to build strong, open, trusting relationships than to truly understand where your child is coming from and have the ability to give them the guidance they so desperately rely on..