I had never really thought about the definition of assertive behavior, nor considered my own level of assertiveness. I generally view assertiveness more as a state of being, not really something I should strive for. After reviewing Module 1 and researching assertiveness and assertiveness training, I realize that I have not been realistic about what assertiveness entails. According to Beagrie (2006), “Many people confuse assertiveness with being bossy, controlling, or aggressive. Assertiveness is simply the ability to stand up for oneself, express one's point of view, address issues up front, and in many cases prevent others from taking advantage of them” (p. 24). I can admit that up until now I was one of those confused people. I have often viewed assertive people as somewhat bossy and overbearing. Even when I needed to assert myself, I felt that people might see me in a negative way. In fact, I now see that there is absolutely nothing wrong with expressing how I feel as long as I continue to respect those around me. I find the subject of self-affirmation very interesting. As children grow up, they receive many rules and lessons. As little ones, we are bombarded with instructions about good manners, conduct and respect. We are very often taught to treat others in a positive way. However, parents and teachers often forget to teach their children self-respect. I don't think most children learn to be assertive. Many adults assert themselves by observing this behavior from their superiors and those around them. Others look at people who are not assertive and vow not to develop these traits. Coming from a military family, I was taught to speak when spoken to when we had company. Offering my opinions and speaking freely... middle of document ...... how to assert myself. This would not only increase the success of each individual but also have a positive impact on the business. Accomplished employees with long-term careers will likely amplify the achievements of the company as a whole. Assertive employees are expected to create positive and constructive relationships with customers. Works Cited Beagrie, S. (2006). How to…be more assertive. Occupational Health, 58(5), 24. Retrieved January 11, 2010 from Academic Search Premier database. Gautam, M. (February 2005). Assert yourself to improve your success. Medical Post, 41(8), 23. Retrieved January 11, 2010 from the Health module. (Document ID: 805774641). Raudsepp, E. (2007). Are you correctly assertive? Monitoring, 68(2), 12-14. Retrieved January 13, 2010 from the Business Full Text database.