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  • Essay / Child Attachment and Child Attachment - 945

    I have two young cousins, one is a 4 year old girl and the other is 6 year old. Long story short, the parents divorced and it amazes me how children's attachment can change before and after divorce. I can't imagine what my life would be like if my parents divorced. Growing up, I often saw them fighting over money issues and I did my best to ignore it. They are still together despite money problems, although sometimes they argue about divorce and I told them to promise me not to divorce until my youngest brother goes to college. They argue a lot but in the end they talk about it, if they divorce it won't affect me. Moving on, I love a lot of my younger cousins ​​because they all see me as their big brother. I had the opportunity to play with them a lot when they were young and I taught them a lot of things. For example, I had an aunt who was very careful with her child and I understand that you have to be careful when he is a baby, but as he grew up he was treated like a baby. He was not allowed to eat alone, although he had the ability to choose a spoon and fork. His exploration was limited to his house. It wasn't until I had the opportunity to babysit him and taught him to eat with a spoon from a very young age and read to him from time to time. His father also didn't like the way his mother treated him when he was a baby, but he couldn't do much because he worked all day. Sometimes family would come to my house and my aunt didn't like dogs, so she wouldn't allow her to pet the dog. At first he was afraid of the dog only because my aunt told him the dog would bite, but it didn't. It wasn't until I had to babysit him one day and properly introduced my dog ​​to him. He was no longer afraid. I like to spend time with my cousin and watch them grow at the same time, I like to play games with them.