The advantages of remaining a virgin until after marriageI am a virgin and I am waiting to share this special gift of human sexuality with that person to whom I will dedicate the rest of my life. in marriage (when and if :) One of the strong fundamental pillars of a marriage is supposed to be the exclusive physical/emotional bond of sexual union. One of the most beautiful ways for me to save myself for my future wife is to see it this way: I'm going to love her so much right now, throughout my life (even if I don't know for sure who it is). I can get married :) I'm keeping this GIFT. And I want to give this GIFT only to her, one of a kind, the most precious person I will ever meet. And she deserves it. This gift, I hope, will have kept to show her that she is something REALLY, REALLY SPECIAL. And you know what, I know she will appreciate this with all her heart. In today's society, it is a rare and unique person who wishes to preserve this gift of sexual union for his life partner. I would encourage anyone in question, feeling peer pressure, societal pressure, boyfriend/girlfriend pressure, to wait until the two of you enter into this lifelong alliance. What could be more exciting, more special, more moving than sharing the wonders of sex with your one true and devoted love!?! Think about it. Think about the future. Think about your future wife or husband. Don’t they deserve your best? It's something you'll remember forever, and what better way to experience it than in a relationship that will last a lifetime. :)'How do you prepare to lose your virginity? And what can you do to stop being *really* nervous about your first time? » Two interrelated questions, dealing with “losing one’s mind”. *Ugh*. What a horrible term. “I’m losing it.” Often, today's popular culture says, "Go ahead and lose your virginity, you're not a man until you do it."..